Loving Sex: What Men Want (2002) Review

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(More customer reviews)Reviewed By: Katie
What do men want? For years I've thought about this question and finally they've come up with a video that's going to give me all the answers, or so I hoped.
The video opens with an introduction by Dr. Bernie Ziebergeld explaining that his video is not about what EVERY man wants, but that it gives you some ideas of what many men want. It's a place to start at least. From there it goes into a man-in-the-street interview asking men what it is they want when it comes to sex.
The answers are really not all that surprising, one of which is that men want their partners to actually be interested in them and in sex in general. Apparently they enjoy it when the woman takes the initiative. "Being creative is important because it makes men feel that you care enough to share in the work of sex."
The video goes on to follow one couple, showing how the woman initiated sex with her partner by leaving a snapshot of herself in various stages of undress from the front door all the way to the bathroom shower where she waited for him. What follows is a shower scene where she washes him ... with slippery, soapy lather. (Note: Some soap can cause a burning sensation in the urethra) It's a very sexy scene. Matter of fact, I rewound the video and watched it again ;-) The couple then goes on to have sex while standing in the shower. Now I know this isn't always physically possible for some couples, but it was still sexy to see it work for them.
Back to the man-in-the-street to find out more of what men want again followed by a normal looking couple acting out one of the suggestions given by the men being interviewed. In all, there are five scenes acted out - Surprise in the Shower, Driver her Crazy in Bed, Fun in the Van, In the Jacuzzi, and An Erotic Birthday Present.
There was an interesting thing that happened in the Jacuzzi, as noted by Dr. Ziebergeld. The setup for this scene is that the man gets more pleasure out of pleasing his partner than in taking pleasure for himself. In that scene we see him pleasuring her orally by the side of the Jacuzzi, but the man never has an orgasm or full erection even though there is plenty of sexplay. Dr. Ziebergeld suggests the following for how men would like women to deal with this type of situation: "Respond by not asking anxious questions about whether she is turning you on or stimulating you correctly. Just go on with the show." I agree with this to a point. Making the situation stressful when it is happening is NOT a good idea. However, if it happens on a regular occasion, I think as a couple you should discuss what is happening.
What does it all add up to?
Overall, I enjoyed watching this video. It did give me some ideas for different things that I can do with my lover to enhance our relationship. It's important to be reminded every once in a while of what keeps the spark in a sexual relationship. If your partner is a bit shy and is not willing to tell you outright what he wants, Dr. Ziebergeld suggests that you tell him your likes and wants first. Your sharing will help him to do the same. That's good advice, but doing so is not always easy. Watching these videos is a step in the right direction.

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THE KEY TO MEN'S SECRET DESIRES!From the Alexander Institute s Loving Sex series, ranked "Best" by Men's Health Magazine. Men show and tell their sexual wishes in bed and beyond. Watch attractive real life couples demonstrate techniques that enhance their sex lives: giving and receiving oral sex; dominance and submission; fantasy role playing; sex outdoors and other unusual places; and how to seduce and be seduced. Learn how to ask for and get what you want, how to continually increase your sexual satisfaction, and how to keep your man intrigued forever! Features optional Spanish, French and German audio and menus.-What's really attractive in a woman-How to ask for and get what you want-Drive him crazy in bed and beyond-Sex in public places-Seduce him in the shower

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Loving Sex - Ultimate Sexual Massage (2004) Review

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(More customer reviews)I finally got the DVD player hooked up in my bedroom - something that I highly suggest couples doing - and finally got some alone time to watch my assigned DVDs. Today's assignment was Ultimate Massage, The Art of Sexual Touch. This is one of the Loving Sex instructional videos, and since I had read Jenne's review of Lover's Massage I was curious how this video was different from the one she watched.
The is a 60 minute video which opens with a scene where a wife meets her husband at the door, telling him she has a special Christmas present for him. They then rush from the door to the bedroom and pop in the tape. The opening was a bit abrupt, but I suppose they had to get to watching the video somehow. Once in the bedroom with the tape running, we are allowed to see the video they are watching with begins with an introduction by Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld, the author of the famous best seller MALE SEXUALITY. There was one statement he made that I thought captured the essence of this video. "Erotic massage is a way to wake up the sexual sensual self. Sensual massage is not foreplay. The goal is not intercourse. The goal is not even orgasm. If you happen to have intercourse before, during, or after your sensual massage, that's fine. But that's not really the goal. The goal is simply to experienced pleasure."
The main difference between the Ultimate Massage video and the Lover's Massage video is that I believe the Ultimate Massage video is more intimate. While the Lover's Massage focuses on whole body massage, the Ultimate Massage video centers primarily on genital massage. The video is broken down into five parts: erotic frontal massage, Male genital massage, female genital massage, practice erotic frontal massage, and practice genital massage.
The first scene is the woman massaging the man. While instructions are given in the background, the woman follows through with the actions. It's quite sexy to watch how she strokes and touches his body, including the different things she does to his penis. Now in all honesty, if I had read the instruction in a book without seeing the video, I might have thought some of the suggestions could cause discomfort - The Serpent, for example (you'll have to watch the video to find out what it is). But when the instructions are given and I saw her carry them out, it made a connection in my brain that said, "Okay, that's what they mean." Then the video changes and we see the man carry out much of the same things that were done to the woman, along with explicit direction on vaginal massage and instructions on finding her g-spot - which I felt would be very helpful to some viewers.
After he has finished, our couple watching the video turns it off and they proceed to try out all the things they learned. It's not exactly the same, but it helps to reinforce all the different moves, and it shows you a couple of different ways to change the routine without affecting the eventual outcome - which is to please your lover. I do admit that I love the fact that these people appear to be really enjoying themselves. When he's giving her the g-spot massage you see her body twitch and jump, you hear her moans, just like it happens in real life. And when she is giving him the penis massage you actually see him ejaculate - not the cheesy sort of porn money shot, but a tasteful depiction of a man enjoying himself to orgasm.
What's it all add up to?
I think this is a great video for couples wanting to learn how to better explore their lover's bodies and for those who have a goal to just bring pleasure to their partners. This is not the kind of video that centers on `getting your own.' This is about using your senses, especially touch to tease and arouse your partner. I would highly recommend it.


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THE ART OF SEXUAL TOUCH From the Alexander Institute Loving Sex series, rankedBestby Mens Health Magazine. This program begins where other massage programs leave off. Follow Tina and Al as they learn from a more experienced couple how to attain new heights of sensual and sexual pleasure. Master erotic massage techniques that will improve intimacy in your relationship. Locate and stimulate the G-spot, and completely awaken all the senses. This program is the best step-by-step guide to women s and men s full body and genital massage. Features optional Spanish, French and German audio and menus.-Find new erogenous zones-Locate and stimulate the G-spot-Unique intervaginal video-Massage as lovemaking-Explicit genital massage

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Loving Sex - Modern Kama Sutra 3 DVD & 3 CD GIFT SET (2005) Review

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(More customer reviews)This well-produced set features a workshop on the Kama Sutra along with beautifully shot sex scenes using real couples. The host, Dr. Patti Britton, takes you through the Kama Sutra step by step, and the couples later apply what they've learned (in some very hot sex scenes). The couples are all very attractive, each in their own way. The first two DVDs cover everything about the Kama Sutra from setting the atmosphere to massage and erotic touch. The third DVD demonstrates a wide variety of positions from the Kama Sutra that will make you want to try every one!

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SAVE! 3 full-length DVDs and 3 CDs. From the Alexander Institute's LOVING SEX series, which was ranked the best by Men's Health Magazine. The ideal gift for loving couples. Learn how to enhance your love life with this erotic collection of explicit and informative programs. Features optional Spanish, French and German audio and menus. Gift set includes:LOVING SEX - MODERN KAMA SUTRA VOL. 1 DVD & CDSensual Secrets to Amazing Sex. Discover the mysterious teachings of the ancient Kama Sutra. Learn about opening your senses, preparing your environment, the importance of nature and water, and bringing spirituality into your lovemaking. Join four attractive real life couples as they experiment with erotic massage, spontaneous lovemaking, food and sex, and other explicitly erotic encounters. Discover the gateway to great sex. LOVING SEX - MODERN KAMA SUTRA Vol. 2 DVD & CD Pleasuring Her First. Discover how important it is for the man to pleasure the woman first. Learn how to move from sensuality to a more erotic style, including the secrets of simultaneous oral pleasure. See how to be a passionate kisser, how to engage in manual lovemaking and oral pleasures on her, and how to reciprocate ecstatic pleasures for him. Focusing on the woman being aroused and ready for lovemaking is a sure path to great sex. LOVING SEX - MODERN KAMA SUTRA VOL. 3 DVD & CD Sexual Positions for Great Sex. Discover an amazing array of sexual unions - or sexual positions--using the inspiration of both the ancient and our modern Kama Sutra. Try standing, kneeling, lying or sitting positions to bring out the passion in your sexual encounters. Watch four attractive real life couples as they explicitly experiment with different positions, different locations, and different times of day. Learn how to give and receive during lovemaking.

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